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First Time Anal Sex: Real ass sex Experience
2025-12-27
I wonder if many Hong Kong girls often hear their boyfriends say: “How about we try anal?”
Or something like “Let’s clean it up and try putting it in the back.”
Originally, I never thought about trying anal play. I had no idea what anal sex felt like — I just assumed it would hurt a lot, so I always refused. And honestly, not many girls do anal, right?
But my boyfriend kept gently suggesting it, and recently I finally told him we could try.
He was absolutely thrilled 😂😂
Is First Time Anal Sex Comfortable?
After trying it once, I’d say anal sex didn’t hurt, but there was a strong foreign-body sensation. Still, it felt quite pleasurable. Have you tried anal? Was your first anal comfortable?
Below are essential steps for a woman’s first time anal sex: proper cleaning, anal training, lubrication, and how to maximize pleasure during anal penetration.
What to prepare before anal intercourse? Here are my personal tips for safe anal preparation and beginner anal play.
First Time Anal Tip 1: Prepare Proper Anal Cleaning Tools
The anus is where poop comes out — everyone knows it needs thorough cleaning before anal intercourse.
In the bathroom, I spread my legs while my boyfriend brought out the essential anal cleaning tool: an enema bulb or douche pump. Any reliable anal douche works — just fill it with water, insert, and squeeze.
He used warm water so it wasn’t cold — this makes first anal much more comfortable.
I thought the water would leak out immediately, but it doesn’t at first. You need several rinses before clear water flows out. Mine was transparent — probably because I’d pooped that morning and eat lots of fruit.
The feeling during first-time anal cleaning was strange: normally only solid things come out, but now it felt like peeing from my anus with a warm, slightly burning sensation — totally new!
Summary: Always clean thoroughly before anal sex. Use warm water. The water usually comes out clean (though it varies by person).
First Time Anal Tip 2: Use an Anal Plug to Relax and Train
After cleaning, we started the anal training phase.
(Tip: Lay a towel on the bed for peace of mind.)
We began with a basic anal plug — the kind with a flared base. Even a beginner-friendly one works perfectly.
Use plenty of lube or anal relaxing cream/spray to help the sphincter relax. At first, there was no pain — just a noticeable foreign sensation.
The anus has many nerve endings (source: Wikipedia), so feeling some pleasure during anal training is completely normal.
The goal: Let your sphincter relax and get used to having something inside.
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I thought we’d stop at fingering, but my boyfriend playfully said he wanted to try his penis since I was already relaxed…
Two fingers and a penis are very different in size! He used silicone-based anal lube — Pjur med PREMIUM is long-lasting and highly recommended.
Apply lube on the penis, not just the anus. If it feels sticky or painful during insertion, add more — never force it.
Anal Tip 5: My Actual First Anal Penetration — Go Slow!
Lie on your stomach with a pillow under your hips to raise your butt — this position makes entry easier for first time anal sex.
I expected him to go slowly like with fingers… but he suddenly thrust all the way in! My anus felt completely full. Thanks to lots of lube and prior stretching, it slid in smoothly — but I was shocked and yelped!
Advice: Insert the penis very gradually. Anal requires patience and technique to avoid injury.
Anal Tip 6: The Sensation is Intense Heat…
Initial entry wasn’t painful — just a huge full, warm feeling. As he moved, it became hotter and more intense, like a burning pressure.
After a few minutes, my whole body went limp. The pleasure was different from vaginal — deep, overwhelming, and unique.
Next time, with more experience and better prep, I’ll be able to focus purely on the anal orgasm sensation.
Apart from the sudden full thrust, I stayed relaxed throughout — helped by my boyfriend being gentle and caring.
Mental relaxation leads to physical relaxation, making anal penetration easier and pleasure stronger.
Anal play is slow and gentle. Communicate constantly — ask if it feels good, if you can go deeper. That’s the key to an amazing first anal experience.
Hope my honest first time anal story helps you enjoy safe, pleasurable anal intercourse!
First Time Anal Sex FAQ (2025 Updated)
1. Does anal sex hurt? What preparation prevents pain?
Pain usually comes from insufficient preparation. Use thorough cleaning, anal training, relaxing products, and lots of silicone-based lube. Go very slowly. Individual tolerance varies — start solo if nervous.
2. Does liking anal make someone gay?
No. Sexual orientation isn’t defined by one act. Many straight men and women enjoy anal pleasure (especially prostate stimulation in men). Enjoying anal doesn’t change your orientation.
3. What does anal sex feel like?
A unique deep fullness, intense warmth, and different kind of orgasm compared to vaginal sex. Many describe it as overwhelming and highly pleasurable once relaxed.
4. What counts as anal intercourse?
Any object (finger, toy, penis) entering the anus qualifies as anal penetration.
5. How to make first time anal painless?
Clean thoroughly, train with plugs/fingers, use relaxing spray and thick lube, stay relaxed, communicate, and go extremely slow.
6. Can anal sex cause injury?
Yes, if rushed or without enough lube — possible tears or discomfort. Always prioritize safety and stop if painful.
7. Best position for first anal?
Doggy with hips raised (pillow under stomach) or spooning — both allow control and easier relaxation.
8. How long should anal preparation take?
30–60 minutes of cleaning, training, and foreplay is ideal for beginners.
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