Uncomfortable Masturbation? Have You Learned How to Masturbate?
Talking about female masturbation is often difficult. Some think women who enjoy it are overly sexual or lustful. In reality, everyone has the right to explore their own body and enjoy sexual pleasure. Masturbation is one of the easiest ways for women to reach orgasm. Many women have used their hands to masturbate. Typically, this involves rubbing the clitoris or inserting fingers into the vagina. This article introduces alternative masturbation techniques, moving beyond the repetitive use of hands. Here are 6 female masturbation methods to try.
Method 1: No Partner? Masturbate While Fantasizing!
Female masturbation can harness the power of imagination. Try this: lie down comfortably, play some soothing music, and adjust your position until you feel relaxed. Women can start by rubbing through their underwear while imagining their desired partner — this could be a celebrity, a muscular man, or even a colleague or friend. Fantasizing is a highly effective masturbation method.
Visualize their body, how they touch you, and explore different positions, such as doggy style (learn more about doggy style here). Imagine them moving from your chest to your hips and then inside. Combine fantasy with your own touch to reach orgasm. If you like, fantasize every night before sleep — essentially masturbating nightly.
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Method 2: Achieve Orgasm While Showering
Showering can be arousing for women. Use the shower head to gently spray the clitoris, creating vibration. This is one of the most common masturbation methods. You can also stimulate nipples and the vagina simultaneously with your hands, enhancing pleasure. Feel the water flowing from your body down to the clitoris and labia while fingers explore internally. Turn your shower into a sensual, private experience.
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Method 3: Masturbate in the Toilet – Stay Silent
Besides the bathroom, the toilet is another private space. Whether at home or in a public restroom, you can enjoy a secret masturbation session.
The thrill of a new environment can heighten arousal. If someone unexpectedly enters, and you are near orgasm, stay silent to maintain privacy.
After secretly masturbating in a toilet stall, you can walk out as if nothing happened. No one will know your secret, leaving you with pleasure and relaxation that lasts all day. Have you learned this female masturbation method?
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Method 4: Adult Toys – More Pleasure Than a Boyfriend
Women should never shortchange themselves. Just as men use male masturbators, women can also enjoy masturbation with dedicated adult toys.
Recommended toys include vibrating eggs, clitoral suction devices, and dildos. Using a favorite toy can replace your old partner and help you reach orgasm efficiently. A vibrator that stimulates both the clitoris and the vagina will provide intense pleasure and quick orgasms.
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Method 5: Don’t Forget Your Nipples
When thinking about masturbation, many women focus on the vagina or clitoris, but nipples are also sensitive and effective for arousal. Stimulate them in circles or with vibrating eggs or clitoral suction devices. Dual stimulation helps you reach orgasm faster and enhances your masturbation experience. Never ignore your nipples!
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Method 6: Watch Adult Videos to Enhance Pleasure
Women can also get aroused by watching adult videos. Lock your door, open an AV website, and watch scenes of penetration. Following along can simulate an intimate experience with the performer, making it easier to reach orgasm. Don’t suppress your desires — exploring sexual pleasure is normal and healthy.
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Understanding Your Body is Key
Dr. K encourages women to explore their bodies, as sensitivity exists from head to toe. Some may feel aroused by a feather brushing the arm. Learning your body will make masturbation more pleasurable. Remember to wash your hands and clean sex toys before use, and urinate afterward to prevent urinary tract infections. Once prepared, open your senses and enjoy self-pleasure.
Further Reading: 5 Ways Men Can Help Women Reach Orgasm — It’s All About the Brain!
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FAQ – Female Masturbation
Q: Do women need to learn how to masturbate?
A: Many rely on Japanese AVs for sexual knowledge, but AVs are made for entertainment. It’s better to refer to female masturbation guides to learn proper techniques.
Q: Is it hard for women to reach orgasm?
A: Yes, reaching orgasm can be difficult. Not every woman achieves it easily, so different masturbation experiences are important to learn what works best.
Q: Can I masturbate with a pillow?
A: Yes, but it may not be the most effective method. Pillows are soft, but you can also use other tools to achieve orgasm more efficiently.
Written by: Dr. K, Your Sexologist
The content represents the author’s personal opinion and does not reflect the website’s official stance.
