Is this your first time masturbating and you're unsure about the pros and cons?
Whether you're a beginner or experienced, many women who have a DIY habit are curious about how it affects them.
Here are the 3 most common disadvantages and 3 benefits of female masturbation, so you can better understand before your first experience.
Let's start with the downsides to give you a little scare.
1 Disadvantage: Be Careful Not to Lose Your Hymen!
This is mainly considered a downside in Asian cultures, where traditional values emphasize "chastity" and place importance on the hymen.
If you or your future partner are traditional, you should be aware of this potential issue:
Women often lose their hymen during their first masturbation experience.
Many girls may break their hymen during childhood masturbation or when a partner curiously inserts a finger into the vagina.
Usually, you might notice blood on your underwear. If you remember seeing blood on your underwear or finger, it likely means your hymen has torn.
Society often objectifies women, and even women themselves may internalize these views. Some may feel "cheap" for losing their hymen, regardless of how it happened.
It's hard to escape traditional thinking and ignore societal judgment. Sexual attitudes in Asia are still quite conservative. On one hand, sFun HK wants to say:
"There's no need to obsess over the hymen. Female masturbation is about bodily autonomy, and everyone has the right to experience pleasure."
On the other hand, sFun HK also reminds you:
"If you want to keep your 'pure hymen' and avoid judgment, saving it for a future boyfriend or husband, then choose non-penetrative methods. Avoid inserting hard objects like toothbrushes, pens, or cucumbers—just stimulate the clitoris. (Though your future boyfriend may not be your future husband, and even marriages can end.)"
Otherwise, you might lose your virginity without having sex, which can feel silly...
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2 Disadvantage: Risk of Urinary Tract or Vaginal Infections
2.1 Urinary Tract Infection
One risk is infection in intimate areas. The female urethra is especially vulnerable, being only about 2.5 to 4 cm long and located between the vaginal vestibule and the vaginal opening—much shorter than in men.
Many girls don't wash their hands or trim their nails before their first time, making it easy for bacteria and viruses to enter the urethra and vagina.
Some women use vibrators, which can also introduce bacteria if not cleaned properly. The surface of toys can harbor germs, and the female intimate area is prone to infection. This can lead to vaginitis or urinary tract infections.
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2.2 Vaginitis
Vaginitis refers to infection of the vagina, which can affect women of any age, especially those of reproductive age (source: Department of Health). Unhygienic DIY can cause infection, and you can watch for sudden increases in discharge or unusual odors as warning signs.
After DIY, if you notice itching, odor, or abnormal discharge, it's best to consult a doctor.
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3 At-Home Disadvantage: Getting Caught by Family is Super Awkward and Guilt-Inducing
After DIY, many feel guilty or "dirty." Masturbating at home also risks being caught by parents.
Many women feel guilty after DIY, worrying their family will find out their "good girl" image is just a facade.
Another risk is being discovered by family—don't ask why, just try it and you'll see. Sometimes family members come home unexpectedly...
Living with family means you might be enjoying yourself after school or work, only for your mom to walk in and see you exposed, with explicit content on your screen. This is a real risk and shouldn't be taken lightly.
Many families are traditional and may see female masturbation as not respecting one's body or as something shameful. Using toys like egg vibrators can be even more shocking to conservative parents.
Now that we've covered the downsides, are you scared? Don't worry—there are also many benefits! Let's take a look.
1 Benefit: Enhanced Orgasms and Better Understanding of Your Body
Practice makes perfect—masturbation helps women understand their bodies better! This knowledge can help you and your partner achieve greater satisfaction during intimacy.
For example, you'll know which areas are sensitive, what kind of stimulation makes you sweat, your heart race, or your skin flush. This helps you guide your partner or adjust positions to maximize pleasure. This is one of the biggest benefits.
Some may say women who masturbate are "promiscuous," but these so-called "promiscuous" acts teach you how to satisfy and please yourself.
In this world, pleasing yourself is most important. Ignore outdated views and love yourself!
Another benefit is that even without a boyfriend, you can still experience sexual pleasure! Try it and see.
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2 Benefit: Reduces Vaginal Dryness, Increases Moisture
Another benefit is improved vaginal moisture and less dryness or itching. Many women naturally have dryness issues, which can cause discomfort during sex or lack of foreplay. During menopause, lower estrogen can reduce blood flow and secretions, decreasing desire.
Masturbation helps "train" your intimate muscles and tissues, keeping them youthful and moist, which helps with dryness and itching. Of course, always wash your hands and toys thoroughly before DIY to enjoy these benefits safely!
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3 Benefit: Stress Relief and Better Sleep
The third benefit is stress relief!
While seeking pleasure, your body also relaxes. For women, the first orgasm from masturbation is an amazing feeling—like riding a rocket to space, truly unforgettable.
Masturbation triggers the brain to release chemicals that help you relax and feel happy. This includes dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins, which aid sleep and relaxation.
So if you're feeling tense or tired, try this benefit for yourself.
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Common Questions About Masturbation Risks
How can I avoid infections like vaginitis or UTIs?
Before your first time, thoroughly wash your hands and any toys you use. Also, regularly clean your underwear and other close-fitting clothes. This reduces the risk of bacteria entering intimate areas and helps prevent infections.
How can I avoid being caught by family?
If you live alone, this isn't an issue. But if you live with family, there's always a chance of being discovered. Try to find a private, safe place—like during a shower or at a hotel—to avoid being caught.
Overall, do the benefits outweigh the risks?
There are two sides to everything, but masturbation is a natural and normal biological phenomenon. In theory, it's a safe and healthy behavior. As long as you do your research and read sFun HK's educational blogs, you can avoid most risks!
Now you know the benefits of female masturbation! Hope you never get caught and always reach climax! See you next time on the sFun HK blog—love you all.
