It's true—many women fantasize about being ravished or in non-consensual scenarios, sometimes even reaching orgasm in the fantasy. According to informal surveys and research, this is surprisingly common. Importantly, this is a completely normal sexual fantasy. Men shouldn't be shocked, and women need not feel ashamed—it's a private, controlled thought that doesn't reflect real desires.

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The Key Difference Between Ravishment Fantasy and Real Assault

First and foremost: a woman's ravishment fantasy is vastly different from real sexual assault. In fantasy, it's just imagination—safe, private, and fully controlled by her.

For some women, these fantasies allow exploring intense, "forbidden" excitement without risk. If men openly ask their partners, many admit to having such thoughts—some studies suggest up to 62% of women have experienced them at least once.

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Main Reasons Behind Women's Ravishment Fantasies

Reason 1: Desire to Be Conquered by a Man

A 2009 study in the Journal of Sex Research (Bivona & Critelli) found that 62% of women reported having ravishment fantasies—likely underreported due to stigma. Psychologically, this ties to evolutionary traits: in many species, males display strength and dominance to attract females. This innate desire for submission can manifest in fantasies of being overpowered.

Reason 2: Avoiding Guilt and Shame

Society often imposes strict moral expectations on women—be chaste, modest, family-focused. Actively desiring intense sex might feel "slutty" or judgmental.

But in a ravishment fantasy, she's "forced"—passive, not initiating. This removes personal responsibility, allowing enjoyment without guilt. It's a safe way to explore high libido.

Reason 3: Affirmation of Irresistible Attractiveness

Research shows more narcissistic or self-confident women tend to have these fantasies more often. They imagine: "I'm so beautiful and sexy—my curves drive men wild—they can't control themselves around me."

The fantasy becomes validation: even "against her will," her allure overwhelms.

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Ravishment Themes in Adult Videos

Many Japanese AV titles feature forced scenarios—starting in public places, with initial resistance and distress. Physical stimulation can lead to orgasm regardless of emotion, as the body responds naturally.

Later scenes often show "enjoyment"—but remember, AV is scripted acting, not reality. These portrayals explore fantasy safely through fiction.

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Never Confuse AV Fantasy with Real Crime

While ravishment fantasies are common among women, the crucial distinction is control and consent: fantasy is 100% voluntary and safe. Real assault involves no pleasure and is illegal. Women with these fantasies do not want them in reality.

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Is it common for women to have ravishment fantasies?

Yes—studies range from 31% to 62% of women reporting them at least once. Many more may not admit due to stigma.

Does having these fantasies mean a woman wants real assault?

Absolutely not. Fantasy is controlled imagination; real assault is traumatic and unwanted.

Why do some women fantasize about submission or force?

Common reasons include evolutionary dominance appeal, guilt-free exploration of desire, and validation of attractiveness.

Are ravishment fantasies linked to past trauma?

No—research shows women with these fantasies are no more likely to have experienced assault.

Can couples safely explore these fantasies?

Yes, through consensual roleplay with clear boundaries, safe words, and communication—it can enhance intimacy.

Is watching forced-theme AV harmful?

As fantasy entertainment, it's acting. Always separate fiction from reality and prioritize consent.

Written by: Lis

The content of this article represents the author's personal opinion only and does not represent the position of this site.